How To Choose Jaw Dropping Bridesmaid Dresses
As a future bride, it is likely that you will have spent months, even years, envisioning the perfect bridal gown that represents the best parts of you. However, finding the right bridesmaid dresses to compliment your style can be just as important.
Many brides state that the moments they share with their bridal party are some of the most memorable and special of their friendship. Making sure they feel their best within the aesthetic of your wedding is what shopping for your bridesmaid dresses should be and, at White Villa Photography and Films, we think these moments of connection sit at the very heart of what weddings are all about.
So, we have compiled our best tips on how to choose bridesmaid dresses that bring your bridal party together.
1. How to set a budget for your bridesmaid dresses
We’ll start with the budget. Your budget should be created before you settle on any one design.
Consider the number of bridesmaids
The number of bridesmaids you want at your wedding can put your budget into perspective. If you have a large bridal party, then you may have a smaller budget per dress, but if you have a more intimate group of friends, you might be able to invest in a slightly more expensive design.
Browse dresses and shops before making your decision
Take a look at styles you like in bridal shops to discover how much your favourite styles cost. This will give you a better idea of the overall price of your dresses before you set a budget.
Do what feels comfortable
There is no right or wrong amount of money to spend on your bridesmaid dresses, so go with your gut. Set a budget that works for you, whether you want to spoil your bridal party or opt for something more affordable.
2. Bridesmaid Dress Styles
Choosing the Right Bridesmaid Dress Style for Your Wedding
When it comes to picking the perfect bridesmaid dress styles, it’s essential to consider the formality of your wedding, your bridal gown, and what makes your bridal party feel comfortable. From elegant floor-length gowns for a formal affair to fun and flirty midi or knee-length dresses for a casual wedding, there’s a style for every setting.
Some popular styles include:
A-line dresses – universally flattering and perfect for all body shapes
Slip dresses – a chic and modern choice, ideal for contemporary weddings
Off-the-shoulder gowns – a romantic option for soft, timeless aesthetics
Mix-and-match styles – let each bridesmaid pick a cut that suits them best while keeping the color scheme cohesive
The Neckline
It is a general rule of thumb that you should avoid bridesmaid dresses that have the same neckline as your wedding gown, but still complement its shape and style.
The Silhouette
After spending months choosing your dress, you don’t want your bridesmaid dresses to steal the show. Opt for silhouettes that are simple but stylish. The most common shape for a bridesmaid dress is A Line because it complements all body types, and the bodice can be altered to suit the tastes of each of your bridesmaids.
The Sleeves
When choosing the sleeve and bodice, take the season and figures of your bridesmaids into account. You could choose to have matching sleeve styles, or alternate to provide some choice for your bridesmaids.
The Fabric
The fabric you choose will highly depend on the season and theme of your wedding. Silk materials are more appropriate for black tie weddings, and velvet would be beautifully placed in a winter castle wedding.
Matching vs Coordinated
Matching styles can create a seamless aesthetic, but might not fit perfectly on your bridesmaids. Some women prefer to have more support in the bodice style whilst others love a flowy sleeve. Coordinated colours with varying shapes will ensure your bridesmaids are comfortable as they celebrate your love.
How To Find Bridesmaid Dresses For Children
Shopping for children’s bridesmaid dresses can be a tougher task than for your adult friends. However, if there is a special child in your life who you wish to be a big part of your wedding day, giving them the opportunity to be involved in choosing their dress can make them feel extra special.
If you have a colour in mind, let them know and allow them to choose the style. We recommend allowing them to choose their own accessories and shoes. They can add their own flair and bring a hint of childish fun to your big day.
3. Bridesmaid Dress Colours
How to Choose the Perfect Bridesmaid Dress Color Palette
Your wedding theme, season, and venue all play a role in choosing the perfect bridesmaid dress colors. Soft pastels like blush and sage are ideal for spring and summer weddings, while deep jewel tones such as emerald and burgundy are stunning for autumn and winter celebrations.
Select bridesmaid gowns based on the seasonality of your wedding:
Spring
Chiffon, matte materials and pastel colours are perfect for spring weddings and complimenting wedding gowns.
Summer
Summer weddings open up the opportunity for muted pink, yellow and blue tones. Shiny dresses often look more in place at a summer wedding, as do midi dresses and strappy necklines.
Autumn
An autumn wedding lends itself to more neutral colours and styles, as well as fuller coverage in the sleeves and neckline of bridesmaid dresses. Wrapped silhouettes and high neck dresses can add a classy, yet practical feel.
Winter
Winter weddings are usually hosted indoors which means you don’t have to compromise on style. Velvet, wine coloured and frosty blues are a popular choice for this season, but you could consider a light or fur jacket to keep your bridesmaids warm.
For a modern touch, many brides opt for a mismatched color palette, allowing their bridesmaids to wear complementary hues that blend beautifully in photos. Whether you go for classic neutrals, soft pastels, or bold statement shades, picking a cohesive color scheme will tie your bridal party’s look together.
Consider the wedding colour palette and theming. You could choose colours that match the season of your wedding, compliment the colours in your bouquet or simply reflect the main colour of your wedding. If you can’t settle on a single colour, multi-colour bridesmaid gowns can offer a modern, bohemian feel.
4. Bridesmaid Dress Fabrics
Bridesmaid Dress Fabrics: Comfort Meets Style
The right bridesmaid dress fabric can make a huge difference in how comfortable your bridesmaids feel throughout the day. Lighter fabrics like chiffon and tulle are perfect for summer weddings, as they are breathable and airy. For a winter wedding, velvet or satin can add an elegant and luxurious touch.
Some popular fabric choices include:
CHIFFON – light, flowy, and perfect for warm weather
SATIN – sleek, smooth, and glamorous for an elegant look
LACE – timeless and romantic, great for vintage-inspired weddings
VELVET – rich and sophisticated, ideal for winter celebrations
5. How to match bridesmaid dresses to your aesthetic
The Style
Your bridesmaid dresses should blend with your aesthetic, whether you plan to have a rustic, formal, vintage or floral affair.
Matching Your Gown
The more elaborate your wedding gown, the simpler your bridesmaid dresses should be. This reduces the visual clutter amongst your bridal party and makes sure you stand out.
6. What are my bridesmaid dress responsibilities?
Who Should Pay For Bridesmaids Dresses?
Typically, paying for bridesmaid dresses is the responsibility of the couple who are getting married.
When To Order Bridesmaids Dresses
When it comes to ordering bridesmaid dresses, the earlier the better. Bridesmaid dresses will need to be altered to fit your bridesmaids, especially if you want a more bespoke design. Ordering them about six months before your wedding, or at the same time as your wedding dress can be a useful rule to make sure they arrive in plenty of time.
7. Your Photography Style
Contacting your photographer early in your wedding planning process can give you an idea of the style of photography you are after. This can inform the colours you choose. Moody and romantic photography can lend itself to light yet neutral tones for your dresses. If you prefer natural, landscape photography then pastel and floral colours may be more appropriate. It’s all in the details.
8. Bridesmaid Dress Trends
Bridesmaid Dress Trends: What’s Popular Right Now?
Keeping up with the latest bridesmaid dress trends can help you create a stylish and modern bridal party look. Some of the biggest trends right now include:
Mismatched dresses – different colors, styles, or fabrics for a unique look
Convertible dresses – multiway gowns that can be worn in different styles to suit each bridesmaid
Bold statement colors – shades like emerald green, burnt orange, and deep plum are trending
Minimalist designs – sleek silhouettes with simple yet elegant details
Thinking about a professional wedding videographer and photographer for your big day?
At White Villa Photography and Films, we are open to discussing your photography style and aesthetic to inform the style choices you make for your wedding.
Get in touch with us today and we can have a chat about your requirements.
01934 611 865
Sam is a seasoned Videographer, Photographer, and Video Editor with over 22 years of experience in capturing weddings. Having worked across England and Europe, he has documented wedding celebrations of every culture, bringing a keen eye for detail and storytelling to each event. Holding a First-Class BA (Hons) in Film & Video Production from the Surrey Institute of Art & Design, Sam blends technical expertise with a deep passion for visual storytelling. Now based in the heart of rural Somerset, he shares his life with his partner Kelly and their two wonderful children. When he’s not behind the camera or in the editing suite, you’ll find him spending time with his family, watching both classic and contemporary films, enjoying a game of football (on or off the pitch), or tending to his garden.
